Career and relationship advice please
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rokus
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Thank you so much sir . Career n relationship guidance please
sir,
please confirm
1). do you have dark colour as compared with your linage .
2). do you have no siblings.
3). do your family transformed you and give you wisdom by giving challenges.
4). do you have to leave your home for education which was due to financial conditions.
5). do you show your intelligence in groups.
please confirm
1). do you have dark colour as compared with your linage .
2). do you have no siblings.
3). do your family transformed you and give you wisdom by giving challenges.
4). do you have to leave your home for education which was due to financial conditions.
5). do you show your intelligence in groups.
rokus
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1. No I m fair
2. I have 2 more sisters
3. Yess had been through a lot of them still undergoing
4. Not yet aage ka pata nahi
5. Not really
I do not remember restricting personal messages. I will have a look.
rokus
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ASTRO RAJARAM
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All Planets ( including lagna ) are Under the rahu ketu except Saturn.... This is one type of Karma Horoscope.... So need for worship lord Kasi vishvanathar is better ... There is no option for improving career or relationship or overall life improving without doing lord Kasi vishvanthar temple...
Mam,
please confirm,
1). do you get into relationship very fast and after that you start liking someone else.
2). do you think hidden knowledge is your biggest resource.
3). do you talk about your father, religion or higher knowledge alot.
4). do you get peace when you are in office.
5). do you take office work to your home.
6). do you make alot of boundaries in your home.
7). did some kind of cheating happened with you during studying or in love life due to mood change.
8) do people come to you for advice regarding which electronic equipment like mobile etc should they buy.
9). do you take decision very fast.
please confirm,
1). do you get into relationship very fast and after that you start liking someone else.
2). do you think hidden knowledge is your biggest resource.
3). do you talk about your father, religion or higher knowledge alot.
4). do you get peace when you are in office.
5). do you take office work to your home.
6). do you make alot of boundaries in your home.
7). did some kind of cheating happened with you during studying or in love life due to mood change.
8) do people come to you for advice regarding which electronic equipment like mobile etc should they buy.
9). do you take decision very fast.
rokus
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rokus
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Wait let me attach my chart details for furthur clarity . I hope to prepare for UPSC should I proceed with it also the current relation I am in is getting off track he is not interested and he clearly said this to me so smwhere or the other I know it's smday finally gonna end bt as for now it's difficult for a sudden letting go . Also is there anything I shud be extra careful about any major prediction for future especially for family career n relationship
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Mam, please confirm
1). Do you talk about your job Or father's family alot.
2). Do you think your father, guru and higher knowledge is your biggest resource.
3). Do you get peace when you are in groups.
4).does uncles from your mother side have giving nature and that's why they got cheated sometime.
5). Does unsolvable problems come suddenly, which is very necessary to solve for survival.
6). Do you take alot of responsibility in your family especially regarding marriages.
7). Do people come to you for advice regarding there home interior, prop etc.
8). Do you learn things very easily.
9). Do you see alot of details where people only see broad outlook.
10). Do you feel proud for your father's house or prop.
1). Do you talk about your job Or father's family alot.
2). Do you think your father, guru and higher knowledge is your biggest resource.
3). Do you get peace when you are in groups.
4).does uncles from your mother side have giving nature and that's why they got cheated sometime.
5). Does unsolvable problems come suddenly, which is very necessary to solve for survival.
6). Do you take alot of responsibility in your family especially regarding marriages.
7). Do people come to you for advice regarding there home interior, prop etc.
8). Do you learn things very easily.
9). Do you see alot of details where people only see broad outlook.
10). Do you feel proud for your father's house or prop.
rokus
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1.Yeah I do talk Abt my father's family bt to sm of my close frnds jst 2 or 3
2. I strongly believe this
3. No not really I like to be in my own world except fr few who cud jst give with me in the calm..
4.yeah yeah it happened my mama ji had experienced a theft which was eventually blamed upon our side idk how far tht was true cuz it was never found ever again so nobody knew who actually did that
5. Idk why to say Abt unsolvable problems bt yeah life feels rough smtimes
6. I am jst an elder daughter so I do take care of my siblings n so many chores bt as far as marriage is concerned no not ever
7. Not much of them
8 I do it interests me especially any new language or sciences or any new interest
9. That's one of the thing so many people said about me bt THAT'S jst natural I see details in random things that go unnoticed.
10. Not really I m detached with this familial core things have been rough
My d10 attached
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rokus
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Born on nov 2 2006 after 5:15 before 5:30 a.m. 2010 to 2025 school years got much love always by teachers n mentors won competition tracked a good academic record always . Didn't generally vibed alongwith everyone so didn't had huge friend circle just two or three by class 12th they used to be like in touch for their personal gains and academic help and after tht they all left . In fact one of my best frnd tht I considered had a talk to ANOTHER person Abt how she is only connected to me bcuz she gets to have good reputation in front of teachers if being with me bt she doesn't considers me a frnd ....I later got to see those chats tht kind of revealed the selfish intents of pol who I get attached to brutally n most of the times it happens I have serious attachment issues .
Being an elder daughter I have had two more sisters my family from paternal side especially grandmother was quite not supportive of girlchild . However my parents brought us up responsibly n made sure we get education. My mother has frequent health issues relating to stomach health she has been our guiding light the most strongest support system fought for us always my father stood by us financially bt I do not have a good emotional or open bond with him I do love n respect him bt we don't talk often so less of tht emotional support n appreciation.
I experience a lot of mood swings and I m quite sensitive to other people's intonation I might end up overthinking about smthng that the person might not have intended to say bt jst bcuz I felt his energy off that wud drain me
rokus
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Born on nov 2 2006 after 5:15 before 5:30 a.m. 2010 to 2025 school years got much love always by teachers n mentors won competition tracked a good academic record since kindergarten to 12th became the first school topper with humanities in 12th with a 99 percent year 2025 (my parents though never gave appreciation for achievement they r saints or what idk bt they never seem to be impressed tht constantly pushes me to do more n SMTIMES I fall into a burn out )always won many laurels in debates and public speaking and music. My other two sisters born in 2018 and 2012 I share an extremely good connect with them . I don't generally vibed alongwith everyone so didn't had huge friend circle just two or three by class 12th they used to be like in touch for their personal gains and academic help and after tht they all left . In fact one of my best frnd tht I considered had a talk to ANOTHER person Abt how she is only connected to me bcuz she gets to have good reputation in front of teachers if being with me bt she doesn't considers me a frnd ....I later got to see those chats tht kind of revealed the selfish intents of pol who I get attached to brutally n most of the times it happens I have serious attachment issues .
Being an elder daughter I have had two more sisters my family from paternal side especially grandmother was quite not supportive of girlchild . However my parents brought us up responsibly n made sure we get education. My mother has frequent health issues bt one major health issue she had in April 2025 relating to stomach health she has been our guiding light the most strongest support system fought for us always my father stood by us financially bt I do not have a good emotional or open bond with him I do love n respect him bt we don't talk often so less of tht emotional support n appreciation. 2023 a subtle relationship kind of feeling tht was mostly distant it jst strted wuth friendship bt felt different bt over times it started to fade he is a 4 may 2007 born 4:44 pm he is always narcissist self obsessed orthodox n very narrowed Abt his views he doesn't like arguments ...even mocks ppl fr engaging in creative things like reading literature writing poems of music ..he doesn't appreciate arguments against his ideology which is wrong whereas I m the opposite since I was raised in a family where I closely witnessed how a women has to even stand out for identity for subtle things like education I m very staunch towards taking my own decisions I don't believ i need to take his permission or anybody's else except for my parents in some areas that too I pursued humanities against their wish even bcuz I jst felt I tune in fr humanities better even after scoring a 96 percent with science in tenth So I m kind of liberal I have different opinions on things he is rigid about . I do stand with culture traditions and religion morals ethics in fact better than him I don't disrespect elders or talk rude to them bt he does n still believed tht he is great and want everyone else to believe that n smwhere I know this relation has to end smday already ended bt a complete full stop shall too be there
2025 July graduation in pol sci n geo preparing for upsc too let me know ur take on this.
I experience a lot of mood swings and I m quite sensitive to other people's intonation I might end up overthinking about smthng that the person might not have intended to say bt jst bcuz I felt his energy off that wud drain me
Mam, as per my analysis your time must be around 5:10 am as per that anything related to technology, business, trading, communication, radio, engineering etc is very good field for you. You should not waste your time on govt job to be Frank as there is very less chance of that happening as per your horoscope. There will always be trouble regarding relationship you should do a arrange marriage instead of love. your family life is good there is no much issue in it. Are you pursing any graduation??
rokus
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Currently I jst feel detached with emotions I do not feel like chasi h friends or anyone I want peace bt my own thoughts trouble me smtimes I start to question my own self guilt trap myself..even when I had done nothing wrong
If I suppose did an assignment n my friend cud nt n smwhere she said on tumne toh kar liya apna what Abt me I wud start feeling bad Abt myself as if I have wronged smthng by doing my own assignment jbki I know it's her fault she didn't did on time bt I can't help I overthink n self doubt myself really brutally
If I participate in smthng n tht person I m in relation he is always jealous of my achievements of I tell him he wud never acknowledge it at first bt bring his own helplessness in the first statement use derogatory sarcasm ki acha sahi hai do jaake bhashan yahi sab kro tum.....n I start to feel bad as if I have been doing smthng wrong...which is not I just participated n won a competition that's all . But he makes me feel bad for him always n he himself does nothing just lies around lazily and idly n expects me to help him academically share all my notes academic plansnin name of love n he himself never helps me ...in fact drains my energy...mocks my family problems away....
I already come frm an orthodox family with strict rules and morals which I abide by but I m not open for more fronts to right or control me that's it bt now I m jst attached anxiously with tht person knowing tht he isn't the right one I m jst quite unable to completely remove him..
I plan to pursue masters in geography meanwhile preparing fr upsc I also look forth to exams like banking n NET guide me
rokus
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Sir I wrote this detailed events up here have a look
rokus
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I really don't feel drawn towards engineering in fact I have a special seclusion fr that I dislike it so much idk why bt it's always been the creative fields that has attracted me... literature history politics music painting poetry writing
rokus
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And as per the time I am quite sure of it cuz it was noted down around 5:30 a.m. in the morning
As I said relationships are not for you. You should leave him immediately. As he is draining your bhagwa(luck). The effect which you describe upward is due to ketu in lagna. He is showing you reality of world. What you should do is become a fakir don't get effected by anyone. Don't care about anyone. As you have seen fakirs do. When you will achieve this you will find the eternal bless which is waiting for you to just mature up. The underline problem in this is you are judging your self which is killing your own self inside. You have to let go of this judging you are very talented you will do a lot of things. Just keep the fakir approach there is nothing which will stop you.
Most of the times Dr right this time when they are done with delivery through there memory which is mostly not correct.
rokus
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Thank you sir for guiding me through this aspect I will keep note of this. Also provide more guidance on career bcuz engineering really doesn't attracts me I left tht track long back and family also any other upcoming event I shud be careful about