Why everything pertaining to romantic relationships are so complicated in my life?

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BK201

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Date: 08-Jan-1996
Time: 01:50 AM
Place: Dandeli, Karnataka

I could never persue my love because my father passed away due to ALS and I had to shoulder the family responsibilities. All my energy went in stabilizing my finances and career.

There were other issues as well like I battled depression for some time, emotional issues with mother.

Now I am torn between these two - I crave a partner and want to get married. But I am not able to find any suitable match in either love marriage or arranged marriage.

Should I give up on my desire for marriage and instead focus on other parts of life?
Is marriage not meant for me? And if not marriage then will I face this loneliness issue throughout my life?

Any guidance and help will be helpful.
Thanks!
 

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Dear sir,
Before saying anything we should know that this is your chart. Please confirm these points and give as much details as possible.
1). Do you think hidden knowledge is your biggest resource.
2). Do you talk about religion or higher knowledge.
3). Do you get peace when you are at your workplace.
4). Do you take your work to home for finishing.
5). Is self respect the biggest criteria to become friends with you.
6). Do you judge foreign people.
7). Do you judge expenses done mainly on education.
8). Did your family transforms you.
9). Did people come to you for advice regarding skills.
10). Do you feel like you have done alot for your family but they don't appreciate.
11). Does your grandfather have a giving nature due to which he was cheated.
12). Did you do something new related to public.
 
1). Do you think hidden knowledge is your biggest resource.
Yes. Infact I usually keep new things I learnt about my work to myself because I believe that since I've put so much effort in learning this, this new knowledge should give me an edge over others at work.


2). Do you talk about religion or higher knowledge.
I'm religious person but I follow my own rules. I believe that it's an intimate relationship between one person and God and there should not be anyone else in between like so called guru, preachers these days.


3). Do you get peace when you are at your workplace.
Yes. I don't have to go to office because my company allows work from home but I go to office daily. I feel suffocated at home. Also note that I don't live my family members. I work in a different city and my family lives in my village.


4). Do you take your work to home for finishing.
Yes.


5). Is self respect the biggest criteria to become friends with you.
Yes.


6). Do you judge foreign people.
I admire foreign people. Because of my work I interact with people from different countries. I always compare how they work vs how we Indian work.


7). Do you judge expenses done mainly on education.
I don't judge. But I want to do masters but since I am the only earning member in my family, I constantly think about ROI if I spend a substantial amount on education.


8). Did your family transforms you.
To some extent.


9). Did people come to you for advice regarding skills.
Yes.


10). Do you feel like you have done alot for your family but they don't appreciate.
Absolutely. Especially for mother and younger brother.


11). Does your grandfather have a giving nature due to which he was cheated.
Yes. My grandfather gave multiple properties to his relatives to live for a while but he was cheated and dragged into court cases. He eventually died and we lost all those properties.


12). Did you do something new related to public
No. I didn't do anything such. But I work in a company that makes software for students so I release new features now and then. But that's part of my job not something I did because I want to serve public.
 
Thank you for your prompt reply.
according to my analysis there is a very good period 30-4-2026 to 19-06-2026 this will give you a relationship and after that the period from 27-10-2026 to 06-12-2026 is very good for marriage.
 
BK201 said:
Male
Date: 08-Jan-1996
Time: 01:50 AM
Place: Dandeli, Karnataka

I could never persue my love because my father passed away due to ALS and I had to shoulder the family responsibilities. All my energy went in stabilizing my finances and career.

There were other issues as well like I battled depression for some time, emotional issues with mother.

Now I am torn between these two - I crave a partner and want to get married. But I am not able to find any suitable match in either love marriage or arranged marriage.

Should I give up on my desire for marriage and instead focus on other parts of life?
Is marriage not meant for me? And if not marriage then will I face this loneliness issue throughout my life?

Any guidance and help will be helpful.
Thanks!
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Your birth time should be read as 1.58AM

There is a good chance that you will meet someone at work as well.
Post July anytime marriage could also take place.

Please stay optimistic. Ensure outside the family, try leverage someone from friend circle.
 
Can you provide dates of important events in your life to verify birth time? For instance, when you lost your father and what age you took family responsibilities
 
Checklater said:
Can you provide dates of important events in your life to verify birth time? For instance, when you lost your father and what age you took family responsibilities
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I lost my father in Nov 2021.

He was first diagnosed with ALS around 2016-17

I am taking care of my family since 2018, from the age of 23.
 
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