Why does love never work out for me?
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What happened to the relationship you had in your 19th year? Also 21st year.
Dont need details, just need to know how it ended.
Dont need details, just need to know how it ended.
I was not in a relationship when i was 19 but i was stuck on a person but was 80 percent over that person.
I got into a relationship when i was 20 years old in sep 2022 but it wasnt love. I got into that relationship due to pressure of not being in a relationship and that person. It ended in dec 2023 when i was 21 years old due to constant fights and no love and spark. I wasnt able to breakup as i didnt wanted to hurt that person but later he brokeup and i was relieved and never patched up again when he requested.
I got into a relationship when i was 20 years old in sep 2022 but it wasnt love. I got into that relationship due to pressure of not being in a relationship and that person. It ended in dec 2023 when i was 21 years old due to constant fights and no love and spark. I wasnt able to breakup as i didnt wanted to hurt that person but later he brokeup and i was relieved and never patched up again when he requested.
Thats 21st year. When you turned 20 , your 21st year started runnin the next day.
It all adds up. I will have a detailed look in a bit and let you know.
Also do you have a problem with weight gain?
astrorahuAshuJi
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1. Don't focus on love life because your 5th lord is combust and depositor in 12th house so love life will not work. Rather you will marry where your family will choose your spouse and he will be good.
2. Are you studying data related or research related course?
3. You should confirm from your family that any person was not performed last rite properly?
4. You have nerve related health issue. Strain in nerves.
5. You can do research related jobs and also can do teaching
6. You have issue of weight gain, foodie habits
2. Are you studying data related or research related course?
3. You should confirm from your family that any person was not performed last rite properly?
4. You have nerve related health issue. Strain in nerves.
5. You can do research related jobs and also can do teaching
6. You have issue of weight gain, foodie habits
I am shocked with the question. Yes i have problem with weight gain. I dont seem to havr a good relationship with food and also i am underweight from childhood and till now i cant gain weight. I feel weak
1. That means i will do arrange marriage. I dont want to do at all
2. I was in data related field but i couldnt keep up with it. I stopped studying due to depression
3. I confirmed , there is no such issue
4. Okay
5. I dont have the brains anymore . Maybe i should go towards teaching then.
6.Okay but i am not foodie.
Thank you so much for the insights
With all due respect, why would you consider a Venus sitting 10 degrees away from Sun as combust? Also 5th lord being in 9th house makes it considerably strong. Venus looks fine to me.
Would you be kind enough to quote some classical text to support your Venus combustion claim?
There is a beautiful window for a solid relationship when Venus goes into virgo, check transits for that but provided dasha/antardasha also supports , Currently you are running Sa/Sa , Might find someone far away, while travelling or may be on the internet. Could be from another country or just a far away place. From a different culture/society from your own.
1. That means i will do arrange marriage. I dont want to do at all
2. I was in data related field but i couldnt keep up with it. I stopped studying due to depression
3. I confirmed , there is no such issue
4. Okay
5. I dont have the brains anymore . Maybe i should go towards teaching then.
6.Okay but i am not foodie.
Thank you for the insights
What can i do to activate this period and what remedies should I do to strengthen and improve my love life?
astrorahuAshuJi
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2. I know 5th lord in 9th house is good but venus is inimical to Sun. It breaks the relationships and not cordial with partner. Sun is heating planet and venus is light planet. So Sun Venus combination gives the relationship issues and it is sign of aquarius(ruler of rahu).
1. Page no 100 book BPHS R Santhanam make a table where he described the Venus is combusted at 10 degree.
2. I know 5th lord in 9th house is good but venus is inimical to Sun. It breaks the relationships and not cordial with partner. Sun is heating planet and venus is light planet. So Sun Venus combination gives the relationship issues and it is sign of aquarius(ruler of rahu).
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8 to 10 degrees apart is considered mild combustion for Venus. At a little less than 10 degrees apart, this Venus is right at the border. Combustion is not a yes/no subject, I personally look at the separation and further apart for me means less damaged. More over this is Venus after mid day.
Strong friendly placement, 5th in 9th and in D9 it is in 2nd house which further strengthens. That tiny bit of combustion can be overlooked at least for me I would not consider effects of combustion for this native.
Strong intense, passionate relationships are overmuch possible. The only problem this native may face is that energy may not be equally matched by her partner thats all.
Strong friendly placement, 5th in 9th and in D9 it is in 2nd house which further strengthens. That tiny bit of combustion can be overlooked at least for me I would not consider effects of combustion for this native.
Strong intense, passionate relationships are overmuch possible. The only problem this native may face is that energy may not be equally matched by her partner thats all.
astrorahuAshuJi
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you are also ignoring the placement of depositor and rahu conjuncts with saturn which is lord of 8th house. Aspect of Saturn will give the delayed and matured relationship. Tit bit relationships will not work at all.