Friction with authority figures, be it father, elder inlaws or husband is what I see and by the looks of it fault is almost entirely yours 80% of the times. Your chart shows a lack of interest in family structure and keeping it intact. Agressive behaviour within the household is also a major problem. You need to evolve to be able to live a happy married life and make your partner happy aswell, from what I see there was/is dissatisfaction on both sides not just one. Also the attitude of do what I say from your side gets in the way of a peaceful family life.
You most likely see boundaries in a marriage as restriction on your freedom. Not the best thing to do if that is the case.
People do not realise themselves, it is best to talk to a councillor who will show you what exactly is wrong with your own approach.
That lagna of yours is not the best for happy married life to be honest, seen many similar cases.